What a man wants

   
     I've been approached, by several ladies I know asking the simple question of what is it that men seek from women? Me being the Love Guru I feel much obliged to become the liaison for us men (well most of us) and state what those qualities/characteristics are.




    First off common ground is very important how can one find love if you has nothing that he relates to in the first place. I guarantee you ladies that tapping into a man's lifestyle is equivalent to tapping into a woman's emotions. You're all good once you pass that first crossroad. When tapped properly a woman can access ideal ice breakers, possible date locations, or just the thinking process of a man.




     We also like to wear the pants I hate to be so blunt, but honesty is key for this. While it's true most men appreciate their significant other to be independent and a strong woman he still wants to steer the boat. Meaning he likes to move at his own pace without feeling pressured it's ok to hint, but avoid complete hostile take overs in a relationship.


     Understand all men has needs such as sex. Sounds shallow ladies but hey it is what it is, if you don't provide it someone else's slot will be filled and I'm not talking about time. Be careful of this need though and make sure if you are having sexual relations outside of a loving relationship or marriage that you all be on common ground before hand or things could go bad. Also stay away from using sex as a reward or a lure, I knew a woman who tried to corner a man into a relationship with sex. She quickly learned three things, one that he he told her what she wanted to hear to get what he wanted, two how much he sucks at being a father to their new kid, and three what it's like to be a single parent.


  They're plenty more needs that men have, what I revealed was just a foundation