Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Sweetest Day the third saturday of October

Sweetest Day 


   Most might argue that Sweetest day is just a another man made holiday that has no importance what so ever. Others don't even know it exist, and then there is the few who knows it exist yet denies it's level of importance. Sweetest day is a hallmark holiday typically celebrated on the 3rd week in October and exclusively in the Great lakes region (where it was developed) and parts of the Northeast region as well in the U.S. On October 8th 1921, in Cleveland Ohio birthed this great day for people to remember and think of their friends, family members and love ones. As well as the sick, aged and Orphanage. 


   Over time Sweetest Day became manipulated to mirror Valentine's Day. That caused the holiday to convert from being less friendly to more romantic orientated. While your elders may have used this holiday to show gratitude to good friends as well as the forgotten, you (nine times out of 10) use it as a reason to initiate steamy romance. From there the holiday evolved once more to benefit men yay for us!


   It's a chance for the ladies to show appreciation to the men for once instead of the traditional that is typically vice versa all year round. Ladies please take heed Sweetest day is a day for the males and males only to be pampered. Wether it's a night on the town, a nice steak and potato dinner or a brand new set of tools it doesn't matter as long as the thought is there we'll be satisfied. If you want to win a certain man over, believe me when I say it come to his rescue during Sweetest Day. He'll first off be shocked that you even acknowledged this holiday and second that you offered to do for him for a chance. (Pissp come closer for this) If you take care of him on his day, come Valentines Day he'll take that extra step to take care of you.


Here is some tips on some do's along with some don'ts 


do's                                                     don'ts
1. Take him out for a movie                    1. Don't think sex is enough to satisfy this holiday 
2. Dinner                                                    2. Avoid double dating (us men hate it).
3. Live sporting event                              3. Avoid flowers
4. Edible bouquet  (fruits & cookies)    4. No complaining (bare a few manly events for a day)   
5. Bowling or billards                              5. Avoid him on this day or you'll regret it!
6. Gifts (tools, clothes, movies, or cds)      
7. Gift cards (Jiffy Lube, Buffalo Wild Wings, Ralph Lauren)
8. A weekend get away (nothing too big)
9. A massage 
10. A nice home cooked meal of his choice





3 comments:

  1. Great tips. Didn't know it was for guys.

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  2. So what do men want in women? How about tackling that question for your readers. You make like Niecey Nash's weekly video advice on love. Check it out: http://screen.yahoo.com/what-a-man-wants-27232174.html

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  3. Hmm… good question. Men want women that can relate to their lifestyle and share the same cultural norms and values. It's very important to be on the same page as your lover to the point where you can converse without even speaking. A video you say? Not a bad idea it will be considered.

    -Love Guru-

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