Is it ok to keep you ex around as a friend?

      My thoughts on this would be people are 50/50 when it comes to maintaining a friendship with their ex. My personal opinion is sure it is it’s no reason two people can’t remain civil after a break up. The first thing you have to ask yourselves how would you new lover view the friendship if it causes problems for you new relationship do not try to reason with your new lover. It would make the situation awkward, as he or she may think you still hold feelings for the person; therefore, it’s not worth the hassle. Still I suggest you be at the very least cordial to one another. The past is the past and there seldom anything you or you ex can do to reverse it. Especially if the relationship ended on a bad note, but to show are a better person remain friendly and if the situation allows it, then go on and befriend your ex.

First Dates

      A lot of people often ponder at the thought of where to go for a first date? I’ve made a list of what’s hot and what’s not.

Hot

Ice-skating

In or outdoor it’s always a romantic idea and if you don’t know how to ice skate it’s all the better for you two to get close while holding each other up.

Lounges

This particularly works best during the week when both of have done nothing but work, and more work. It’ll be nice to have a social hour together and release tension.  You’ll tend to unwind a lot easier so much that the typical icebreakers won’t be needed.

Museum

This will be a chance to see if either you or your date has an interest in art and historical artifacts as well. Hence common ground and it gives you a better chance to find out what he or she is into, if you let them lead through your adventure. Pay close attention on what peeks your date’s interest then move in on that topic for conversation.

Not

Movies

C’mon really are we still in high school here? Most women will appreciate originality and guys avoiding the fail-safe. For one, it’s a cheap date.  For two, the environment doesn’t allow talking; therefore, how would you ever get to know your date.

Your Place

Now days you never want to invite a stranger over your place for dinner or anything for that matter. It’s just unsafe I say wait to a few dates see if the person works out and decide from there.

Concerts or live music

You can take your date to see a band or a on concert if you know their taste in music. If it’s a first date be careful, the last thing you want to do is take a person to a live music event that doesn’t fit their Genre of music.

Outdoor loving

      

      With another season of spring finally here there are many outdoor activities you can now do with your partner. Take for instance a camping trip planning a camping trip with your lover can be romantic as a unique experience. A word of advice is to try detaching yourself from all medias during the trip. Yes you can bring your phone but limit the amount of times you will check it. 

      For example 3 times a day is sufficient. Just make sure you and your lover lets everyone know the 3times of the day that you will be able to take calls. Limit each phone break to 7 minutes. This will give you love birds more of a chance to explore all of what nature has to offer together as one.

      You can go hiking and have walk and talk sessions with each other go site seeing or even picnic a remote yet romantic location (near a water fall or open meadow. Or view the stars, which are more apparent than in urban skies, filled with buildings and pollution that’s most of us are use to.